What goes around comes around.
You reap what you sow.
Your wrongs catch up to you.
Harmful behavior does not justify harmful behavior - no matter how one tries to twist it.
It is way harder to hold others with compassion, empathy, & love. In my 45 year journey I have failed others. I held them to an unattainable pedestal. Trying to tell them how to be when they didn't ask.